timism of the day: Happiness is a choice, as one can choose to be unhappy. However, that choice is a long choice, meaning that happiness is in actuality a byproduct of this choice. The choice is really to meet ones needs with respect to:
Power (Control)
Freedom (Choice)
Love & belonging (Friends, fellowship, family, relationships, and self-love)
Fun (Yes, it's all for not if one is not enjoying the life they choose to live)
Security (Feeling safe)
Purpose (Do i matter? Do i make a differnce? Why get up in the morning? )
Meeting these needs in a balanced socially acceptable manner will lead you to the long choice of happiness inspite of situational stressors. Strangely though, have you noticed that unhappiness is a short choice and can happen in an instant if you so choose.
Just sayin. Take it. Test it. Teach it. timSee More
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